Max Bottaro

Groucho Marx once said “I would not join any club that would have someone like me for a member.” This applies to women and most social settings: no one wants to be a part of something that is super inexclusive, common, or easy to get into. It’s like going to Chico. Well hurray for you. [...]

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woo, seduce, pick up, rapport, attraction, interpersonal, personal development, interview

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Giving away too much of your attention, time, and affection (especially early on), is also a big don’t. If you haven’t noticed by now, attraction is all about what you are communicating (not saying). By throwing a bunch of time, energy, and affection at a girl, what you are communicating is: I am already way [...]

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Another big don’t in The Art of Woo is jealousy. As with trying to impress, Jealousy communicates all the wrong things in terms of mate value: I am insecure about myself; I think I need to be worried about other guys/girls because I have less to offer, I am more concerned with keeping you loyal [...]

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Whether you want to nail a job interview or a hot date, you must first build a connection with the person sitting across the table (or bar). The kind of connection I am talking about here is more than a friendly smile or an un-awkward conversation about your major, the weather, or the food. [...]

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